How do you wear an engagement ring and a wedding ring?

Two rings, one lifelong decision—and a question that concerns many couples: How do you wear an engagement ring and a wedding ring? Is there a set rule? Which hand is the right one? And should you wear both rings together—or separately?

Spoiler alert: There are many options, and none of them are right or wrong. In this article, we'll show you how to wear your wedding ring and engagement ring —traditionally, cleanly, modernly, or completely uniquely. We'll also reveal what happens to the engagement ring after the wedding and how to stylishly combine the two.

Engagement ring and wedding ring – two rings, two meanings

Before we get to the important question of how to wear an engagement ring and a wedding ring , it's worth briefly looking at their meaning. The engagement ring represents the promise—the moment when the question is asked: "Do you want to marry me? " The wedding ring symbolizes your forever "I do." It represents the promise made on your wedding day. Both rings have their place—emotionally and symbolically.

Wedding ring – which hand is traditionally “correct”?

Rarely is the position of a piece of jewelry discussed as much as the wedding ring: Which hand is right? In Germany, the wedding ring is traditionally worn on the right hand. This has a long tradition. Some attribute it to church customs, others to Roman legal practice, which considers the right hand the "strong" one. Ultimately, one way or another, the custom of wearing this love ring on the right hand has developed in Germany. But this is by no means a requirement.

In many other countries, however, such as the USA, France, or Italy, the wedding ring is usually worn on the left hand. Those with a more international outlook or simply find the left hand more attractive can wear the ring there as well. You do you!

Conclusion: If you're wondering where to wear your wedding ring in Germany, the traditional answer is: on the right hand. But that doesn't mean it has to be that way for you. Find the position that suits you and your loved one.

Engagement ring – which hand, which finger?

And how do I wear the engagement ring? Which hand is more appropriate? In Germany, it's customary to wear it on the left hand, as a symbol of the promise yet to come. The ring finger is usually placed on the left hand, because according to old legend, a vein leads directly from there to the heart. Even if that's not necessarily anatomically correct, the symbolism remains beautiful, right?

Wedding ring and engagement ring on one finger? Yes, please.

A popular solution after your dream day: wearing both rings together. But how do you wear an engagement ring and a wedding band on the same finger without it looking too cluttered? The solution lies in the design. Many opt for a deliberately clean combination, such as a simple matt wedding ring with a delicate engagement ring with a stone . Both rings complement each other perfectly, don't look too much, and impress with their minimalist (yet special!) look.

If you're convinced by this style, then place the wedding ring first (closer to the heart) and then the engagement ring on your finger. This engagement and wedding ring combination is modern, stylish, and also symbolically significant.

You can find more inspiration in our engagement ring collection !

How do you wear your wedding ring and engagement ring together stylishly?

Whether worn together on one hand or separately, it all comes down to how the two rings interact. Here are a few tips for anyone who wants to wear their wedding and engagement rings together .

• Choice of materials : gold to gold, silver to silver, or deliberately mixed in a bicolor look.

• Shape : Make sure the frames do not catch or fit uncomfortably.

• Balance : If one of the rings is particularly striking, the other can be more restrained.

Here at fejn, you'll find many designs that can be harmoniously combined—clean, modern, and deliberately minimalist. Just take a look at our wedding rings .

Combining an engagement ring with a wedding ring – is that possible?

For those who prefer a clean look: Yes, you can also combine your engagement ring with your wedding band , meaning you can have both reworked into a new ring. This makes sense, for example, if you want to wear them permanently as a symbol of your commitment (in the truest sense of the word!), or if one of the rings no longer fits perfectly. This solution is less common, but possible and very personal.

Come to Cologne: Are you wondering whether this option is right for you? Then visit us in our store in Cologne. Together, we're sure to find a stylish and clean solution for your love rings.

In a nutshell: How to wear engagement rings and wedding rings

Whether classic, minimalist, or completely individual—there are many answers to the question " How do you wear an engagement ring and a wedding ring? " And each one is right, as long as it suits you.

Here are the most important rules of thumb:

• In Germany: engagement ring on the left, wedding ring on the right

• After the wedding: together on the right, together on the left – or separately

• On top of each other? Yes – first the wedding ring, then the engagement ring

• Alternative: Wedding ring + engagement ring on one hand, or one left, one right

In the end, it's not convention that counts, but feeling. That's exactly what our recycled precious metal wedding rings stand for: For meaningful connections. For true love stories. For you.